1 00:00:04,230 --> 00:00:01,990 i like your tattoos what are those 2 00:00:06,150 --> 00:00:04,240 numbers on your arm oh that's uh the 3 00:00:08,790 --> 00:00:06,160 date my dad died he was a fireman died 4 00:00:11,190 --> 00:00:08,800 in a fire 17 years ago oh my god i'm so 5 00:00:16,170 --> 00:00:11,200 sorry don't be it's fine knock knock 6 00:00:20,070 --> 00:00:17,670 [Music] 7 00:00:22,550 --> 00:00:20,080 whatever happened in 2020 we should be 8 00:00:25,109 --> 00:00:22,560 very grateful to the powers that be 9 00:00:27,189 --> 00:00:25,119 because they have just opened the veils 10 00:00:30,390 --> 00:00:27,199 and showed us so much about the world 11 00:00:31,990 --> 00:00:30,400 and ourselves how we were tested 12 00:00:33,990 --> 00:00:32,000 that was a clip from pete davids in a 13 00:00:35,990 --> 00:00:34,000 movie the king of staten island followed 14 00:00:37,430 --> 00:00:36,000 by a brief clip from today's guest 15 00:00:40,229 --> 00:00:37,440 miguel connor 16 00:00:42,630 --> 00:00:40,239 let me let miguel finish that thought 17 00:00:45,190 --> 00:00:42,640 we're not here to be good we're here to 18 00:00:45,990 --> 00:00:45,200 be ourselves i mean we don't know who we 19 00:00:47,910 --> 00:00:46,000 are 20 00:00:49,910 --> 00:00:47,920 yet we're all going to try to solve the 21 00:00:52,150 --> 00:00:49,920 world and we end up 22 00:00:54,869 --> 00:00:52,160 as you're saying falling into some cult 23 00:00:56,630 --> 00:00:54,879 or some political party because 24 00:00:59,430 --> 00:00:56,640 we don't know who we are and we got to 25 00:01:01,990 --> 00:00:59,440 find out what is our purpose 26 00:01:03,990 --> 00:01:02,000 what a crazy thought hey i mean what if 27 00:01:06,630 --> 00:01:04,000 that's what this is all about what if 28 00:01:07,670 --> 00:01:06,640 that's what the whole pandemic great 29 00:01:09,350 --> 00:01:07,680 reset 30 00:01:11,590 --> 00:01:09,360 is all about 31 00:01:14,710 --> 00:01:11,600 is forcing us into 32 00:01:17,030 --> 00:01:14,720 a deep dive a deep spiritual dive kind 33 00:01:19,030 --> 00:01:17,040 of like the way that pete does in this 34 00:01:21,109 --> 00:01:19,040 movie of putting on the jacket and 35 00:01:23,030 --> 00:01:21,119 becoming a firefighter 36 00:01:25,109 --> 00:01:23,040 just like his dad 37 00:01:27,429 --> 00:01:25,119 people email me and they say well what 38 00:01:28,630 --> 00:01:27,439 are some gnostic practices and i said 39 00:01:30,789 --> 00:01:28,640 well 40 00:01:32,950 --> 00:01:30,799 only you know you got to find out who 41 00:01:36,149 --> 00:01:32,960 you are what works for you and you've 42 00:01:37,350 --> 00:01:36,159 got to create a life a system a gospel 43 00:01:39,830 --> 00:01:37,360 and a myth 44 00:01:42,870 --> 00:01:39,840 that brings out your inner light i can't 45 00:01:44,870 --> 00:01:42,880 help you nobody can help you 46 00:01:46,710 --> 00:01:44,880 nobody can help you 47 00:01:49,510 --> 00:01:46,720 oh my 48 00:01:52,870 --> 00:01:49,520 but in true miguel connor fashion 49 00:01:56,389 --> 00:01:52,880 maybe he also means that everyone can 50 00:01:57,990 --> 00:01:56,399 help you we can all help each other at 51 00:02:01,350 --> 00:01:58,000 least that's one of the things i took 52 00:02:05,109 --> 00:02:01,360 out of this interview with a true 53 00:02:07,510 --> 00:02:05,119 master of deep spirituality and a great 54 00:02:09,910 --> 00:02:07,520 podcaster to boot i hope you stick 55 00:02:13,270 --> 00:02:09,920 around for this interview with miguel 56 00:02:15,990 --> 00:02:13,280 connor and check out his new book and 57 00:02:16,949 --> 00:02:16,000 also thanks you know i put a call out 58 00:02:21,910 --> 00:02:16,959 to 59 00:02:23,350 --> 00:02:21,920 tell other people about the show if you 60 00:02:25,270 --> 00:02:23,360 like the show and if you like a 61 00:02:27,430 --> 00:02:25,280 particular episode and people have 62 00:02:30,550 --> 00:02:27,440 really responded and i certainly 63 00:02:32,309 --> 00:02:30,560 appreciate that so i will say again 64 00:02:35,750 --> 00:02:32,319 if you like it give it to people that 65 00:02:38,949 --> 00:02:35,760 you know will like it too 66 00:02:40,470 --> 00:02:38,959 here's my interview with miguel connor 67 00:02:42,550 --> 00:02:40,480 welcome to skeptica where we explore 68 00:02:44,790 --> 00:02:42,560 controversial science and spirituality 69 00:02:46,790 --> 00:02:44,800 with leading researchers thinkers and 70 00:02:49,430 --> 00:02:46,800 their critics i'm your host alex icarus 71 00:02:50,710 --> 00:02:49,440 and today we welcome miguel connor back 72 00:02:52,869 --> 00:02:50,720 to skeptico 73 00:02:55,830 --> 00:02:52,879 miguel has a new book 74 00:02:58,630 --> 00:02:55,840 10 snackable meditations 75 00:03:00,390 --> 00:02:58,640 nice little travel companion kind of 76 00:03:01,750 --> 00:03:00,400 thing and we're going to talk about it 77 00:03:04,470 --> 00:03:01,760 and we're also going to of course talk 78 00:03:06,869 --> 00:03:04,480 about miguel in general in his work he's 79 00:03:09,990 --> 00:03:06,879 the creator and host of 80 00:03:12,390 --> 00:03:10,000 just the extraordinary aeon bike gnostic 81 00:03:13,830 --> 00:03:12,400 radio which if you've listened to this 82 00:03:15,110 --> 00:03:13,840 show you know 83 00:03:18,309 --> 00:03:15,120 has been 84 00:03:20,790 --> 00:03:18,319 kind of an ongoing inspiration to me for 85 00:03:23,750 --> 00:03:20,800 years and years and years and 86 00:03:26,470 --> 00:03:23,760 it just keeps getting better every time 87 00:03:28,710 --> 00:03:26,480 i listen to there's no downgrade in the 88 00:03:32,390 --> 00:03:28,720 quality of those unbelievable openings 89 00:03:34,869 --> 00:03:32,400 or the guests that he has on and the one 90 00:03:37,589 --> 00:03:34,879 of the kind interviews that really 91 00:03:40,149 --> 00:03:37,599 can only be done by someone who has 92 00:03:42,390 --> 00:03:40,159 really mastered their field and for 93 00:03:44,830 --> 00:03:42,400 miguel of course that field is 94 00:03:47,509 --> 00:03:44,840 modern-day gnosticism kind of 95 00:03:50,149 --> 00:03:47,519 popularized gnosticism but with a 96 00:03:52,309 --> 00:03:50,159 research oriented kind of bent to it 97 00:03:53,830 --> 00:03:52,319 along with i would say alternative 98 00:03:57,030 --> 00:03:53,840 spirituality 99 00:03:59,830 --> 00:03:57,040 in general so miguel it's absolutely 100 00:04:02,550 --> 00:03:59,840 always terrific to reconnect with you 101 00:04:04,789 --> 00:04:02,560 thanks so much for joining me 102 00:04:07,270 --> 00:04:04,799 always glad to be here my friend it's 103 00:04:08,470 --> 00:04:07,280 always it's always a blast and here we 104 00:04:10,949 --> 00:04:08,480 are and 105 00:04:12,550 --> 00:04:10,959 things are just getting crazier so 106 00:04:14,789 --> 00:04:12,560 what are you gonna do 107 00:04:16,229 --> 00:04:14,799 yeah i was gonna i was gonna hold off on 108 00:04:17,909 --> 00:04:16,239 saying that because i want to talk about 109 00:04:19,749 --> 00:04:17,919 the book first but you just brought it 110 00:04:22,150 --> 00:04:19,759 up miguel man 111 00:04:23,510 --> 00:04:22,160 i t i i got to do a little temperature 112 00:04:26,070 --> 00:04:23,520 check on you because i've heard a couple 113 00:04:28,710 --> 00:04:26,080 of your shows and you sound more 114 00:04:30,070 --> 00:04:28,720 i don't know lit up engaged kind of 115 00:04:31,749 --> 00:04:30,080 politically although we were just 116 00:04:33,510 --> 00:04:31,759 talking about politically then i've ever 117 00:04:36,469 --> 00:04:33,520 heard y'all like give that guy a magma 118 00:04:39,749 --> 00:04:36,479 hat and i know that's not your 119 00:04:40,629 --> 00:04:39,759 i know that's not your thing but uh 120 00:04:42,870 --> 00:04:40,639 they 121 00:04:44,629 --> 00:04:42,880 it's kind of beyond is it beyond 122 00:04:46,870 --> 00:04:44,639 interesting times for you because you've 123 00:04:49,189 --> 00:04:46,880 always been kind of a 124 00:04:52,629 --> 00:04:49,199 subtle play it down interesting times is 125 00:04:55,110 --> 00:04:52,639 it is it gotten past that for you 126 00:04:57,430 --> 00:04:55,120 i would say so yeah definitely i mean 127 00:05:00,550 --> 00:04:57,440 this happened before 2020. it probably 128 00:05:02,950 --> 00:05:00,560 happened late 2018 129 00:05:05,749 --> 00:05:02,960 i was always doing am bite like kind of 130 00:05:07,590 --> 00:05:05,759 part time and then i do uh reruns in 131 00:05:09,430 --> 00:05:07,600 fact you i remember you mentioning you 132 00:05:10,469 --> 00:05:09,440 know my feed has reruns i said yeah i'm 133 00:05:12,950 --> 00:05:10,479 just doing 134 00:05:15,510 --> 00:05:12,960 two uh two a month and then two reruns 135 00:05:19,590 --> 00:05:15,520 because i had this big archive of shows 136 00:05:22,710 --> 00:05:19,600 before itunes and youtube and the golden 137 00:05:26,710 --> 00:05:22,720 age of podcasting so once i went full 138 00:05:29,189 --> 00:05:26,720 time in 2019 i said well now this is you 139 00:05:30,870 --> 00:05:29,199 know as they say got serious i'm 140 00:05:33,430 --> 00:05:30,880 doing this full-time i'm getting more 141 00:05:34,710 --> 00:05:33,440 subscribers so now it's time to really 142 00:05:37,590 --> 00:05:34,720 put my 143 00:05:40,950 --> 00:05:37,600 ass on the line so my intro started 144 00:05:43,189 --> 00:05:40,960 getting more passionate or more uh 145 00:05:45,590 --> 00:05:43,199 surgical towards not not just talking 146 00:05:47,590 --> 00:05:45,600 about the ancient gnostics and occultism 147 00:05:50,390 --> 00:05:47,600 and mysticism but 148 00:05:53,110 --> 00:05:50,400 how it can work socially today and of 149 00:05:56,150 --> 00:05:53,120 course that of course meant 150 00:05:58,469 --> 00:05:56,160 taking aim at the rulers of this age at 151 00:06:01,590 --> 00:05:58,479 a crumbling society and obviously with 152 00:06:04,629 --> 00:06:01,600 2020 with all that happened it just got 153 00:06:07,029 --> 00:06:04,639 put on uh steroids i felt 154 00:06:07,909 --> 00:06:07,039 people need to hear more and i need to 155 00:06:09,990 --> 00:06:07,919 uh 156 00:06:12,870 --> 00:06:10,000 get more out of my system what's the 157 00:06:14,870 --> 00:06:12,880 gospel of thomas famous saying if you 158 00:06:16,790 --> 00:06:14,880 bring out what is within you it will 159 00:06:19,670 --> 00:06:16,800 save you if you do not bring out what 160 00:06:21,749 --> 00:06:19,680 what is within you it will destroy you 161 00:06:24,390 --> 00:06:21,759 and i think that's in a situation that 162 00:06:25,749 --> 00:06:24,400 most people are today we have to pivot 163 00:06:30,629 --> 00:06:25,759 and we have to 164 00:06:32,550 --> 00:06:30,639 spaces i think rece this last year or 165 00:06:35,029 --> 00:06:32,560 two has just shown us that 166 00:06:37,749 --> 00:06:35,039 everything is everything's in flux and 167 00:06:41,510 --> 00:06:37,759 everything's a sham and here we are it's 168 00:06:43,590 --> 00:06:41,520 time to move to those uh deeper spaces 169 00:06:45,590 --> 00:06:43,600 i i get that but what's most powerful 170 00:06:48,309 --> 00:06:45,600 about what you're saying is 171 00:06:50,309 --> 00:06:48,319 the voice that's coming through you and 172 00:06:52,309 --> 00:06:50,319 bite gnosticism all those things that 173 00:06:55,510 --> 00:06:52,319 you set of looking at 174 00:06:58,230 --> 00:06:55,520 this broader historical landscape and 175 00:07:01,189 --> 00:06:58,240 this spiritual landscape which 176 00:07:03,110 --> 00:07:01,199 brings us to your book so contrast that 177 00:07:05,430 --> 00:07:03,120 pivot that with 178 00:07:07,430 --> 00:07:05,440 ten snackable meditations and what 179 00:07:09,670 --> 00:07:07,440 you've tried to do there because in in a 180 00:07:11,189 --> 00:07:09,680 way it is that balancing that you've 181 00:07:12,070 --> 00:07:11,199 always been about 182 00:07:13,589 --> 00:07:12,080 yeah 183 00:07:16,870 --> 00:07:13,599 i mean 184 00:07:19,589 --> 00:07:16,880 it's how do i put this uh the book i 185 00:07:21,909 --> 00:07:19,599 mean sometimes when you're searching for 186 00:07:23,589 --> 00:07:21,919 your voice or you're bringing it out 187 00:07:25,350 --> 00:07:23,599 from within 188 00:07:27,189 --> 00:07:25,360 it's supposed to come from a deeper 189 00:07:29,510 --> 00:07:27,199 place i mean you hear that from 190 00:07:32,790 --> 00:07:29,520 entrepreneurs and others something came 191 00:07:35,510 --> 00:07:32,800 over me and i just decided to go for it 192 00:07:37,749 --> 00:07:35,520 and maybe it wasn't uh the 193 00:07:40,150 --> 00:07:37,759 the success you wanted or everything but 194 00:07:43,270 --> 00:07:40,160 there are doors and pathways that open 195 00:07:45,990 --> 00:07:43,280 what did joseph campbell famously say uh 196 00:07:47,510 --> 00:07:46,000 follow your bliss and doors will open i 197 00:07:49,990 --> 00:07:47,520 always made the mistake of thinking 198 00:07:52,150 --> 00:07:50,000 bliss was some sort of hedonistic thing 199 00:07:54,629 --> 00:07:52,160 like i'm just gonna have fun but i think 200 00:07:57,589 --> 00:07:54,639 he was really talking about the context 201 00:07:59,670 --> 00:07:57,599 of who you are what your purpose is how 202 00:08:02,150 --> 00:07:59,680 it aligns with your deeper self and what 203 00:08:03,029 --> 00:08:02,160 you can do to make a difference 204 00:08:04,309 --> 00:08:03,039 so 205 00:08:06,629 --> 00:08:04,319 like with 10 206 00:08:09,189 --> 00:08:06,639 this goes into my introduction something 207 00:08:12,230 --> 00:08:09,199 told me you need to put some you know 208 00:08:14,790 --> 00:08:12,240 wood in the fire you need to uh try to 209 00:08:16,869 --> 00:08:14,800 speak to uh the situations that are 210 00:08:18,869 --> 00:08:16,879 happening today and make this ancient 211 00:08:21,670 --> 00:08:18,879 gnosticism more relevant with 10 212 00:08:22,550 --> 00:08:21,680 snackable meditations it was kind of the 213 00:08:25,189 --> 00:08:22,560 same 214 00:08:28,230 --> 00:08:25,199 i had bought this sort of new e-commerce 215 00:08:30,390 --> 00:08:28,240 platform and i was testing it and 216 00:08:33,190 --> 00:08:30,400 i said i need something to test it so 217 00:08:36,230 --> 00:08:33,200 i'm just gonna in some of my groups we 218 00:08:39,589 --> 00:08:36,240 kind of share meditation practices and 219 00:08:41,350 --> 00:08:39,599 tools for everyday coping especially 220 00:08:42,630 --> 00:08:41,360 these days and i said well i'm going to 221 00:08:45,670 --> 00:08:42,640 just do this 222 00:08:46,470 --> 00:08:45,680 as an experiment so i started writing 223 00:08:48,070 --> 00:08:46,480 uh 224 00:08:50,070 --> 00:08:48,080 this book and suddenly it started 225 00:08:52,150 --> 00:08:50,080 growing and i created the cover and 226 00:08:54,870 --> 00:08:52,160 before i even knew it i was like oh crap 227 00:08:58,630 --> 00:08:54,880 i am publishing a book in like a month 228 00:09:00,389 --> 00:08:58,640 uh in a month uh process i was like i 229 00:09:02,389 --> 00:09:00,399 published the book and now it just came 230 00:09:05,030 --> 00:09:02,399 out in kindle it's in print version the 231 00:09:06,870 --> 00:09:05,040 audio version is coming out from 232 00:09:08,949 --> 00:09:06,880 an audible and apple 233 00:09:11,990 --> 00:09:08,959 probably in the next week so it's one of 234 00:09:14,150 --> 00:09:12,000 those uh the spirit took me and i just 235 00:09:16,310 --> 00:09:14,160 went for it and i have no idea where 236 00:09:18,070 --> 00:09:16,320 it's going what it's going to do but 237 00:09:20,790 --> 00:09:18,080 it's something that i knew it would be 238 00:09:23,430 --> 00:09:20,800 helpful i want it to be helpful because 239 00:09:25,750 --> 00:09:23,440 we do live in more fragmented times 240 00:09:27,190 --> 00:09:25,760 where people are under a huge amount of 241 00:09:28,870 --> 00:09:27,200 anxiety 242 00:09:31,509 --> 00:09:28,880 and stress and 243 00:09:33,670 --> 00:09:31,519 the old ways might not be working i mean 244 00:09:36,310 --> 00:09:33,680 i'm sure you can relate to how people 245 00:09:38,310 --> 00:09:36,320 are where it's uh oh my god i had a 246 00:09:40,310 --> 00:09:38,320 stressful day i'm gonna wait till i get 247 00:09:42,550 --> 00:09:40,320 home and have a drink or watch tv or i'm 248 00:09:43,269 --> 00:09:42,560 gonna wait till i go to church on sunday 249 00:09:51,509 --> 00:09:43,279 or 250 00:09:54,150 --> 00:09:51,519 weekly yoga class but those ways those 251 00:09:56,630 --> 00:09:54,160 old ways don't work i think we need 252 00:10:00,070 --> 00:09:56,640 to we need a set of spiritual 253 00:10:02,710 --> 00:10:00,080 psychological wellness toolboxes 254 00:10:04,550 --> 00:10:02,720 at our disposition at all times of the 255 00:10:06,949 --> 00:10:04,560 day it's not good enough 256 00:10:09,190 --> 00:10:06,959 you had bad news at work or you're 257 00:10:10,790 --> 00:10:09,200 overwhelmed because of the twitter feed 258 00:10:13,190 --> 00:10:10,800 and you're gonna wait it's like no how 259 00:10:14,150 --> 00:10:13,200 am i gonna get these meditations and 260 00:10:18,790 --> 00:10:14,160 these 261 00:10:21,750 --> 00:10:18,800 an instant because we are being 262 00:10:23,910 --> 00:10:21,760 bombarded by media and misinformation 263 00:10:26,630 --> 00:10:23,920 and propaganda and the old ways are 264 00:10:29,910 --> 00:10:26,640 falling apart from the workplace to 265 00:10:31,350 --> 00:10:29,920 societal circles to our very culture so 266 00:10:33,030 --> 00:10:31,360 i thought this would be helpful and it's 267 00:10:35,350 --> 00:10:33,040 something i learned from alcoholics 268 00:10:37,430 --> 00:10:35,360 anonymous they always uh 269 00:10:39,430 --> 00:10:37,440 they always said it's not enough to go 270 00:10:41,110 --> 00:10:39,440 to meetings have a tool box of these 271 00:10:42,550 --> 00:10:41,120 spiritual tricks 272 00:10:45,110 --> 00:10:42,560 or tricks or 273 00:10:47,430 --> 00:10:45,120 whatever hacks if you would that'll get 274 00:10:49,829 --> 00:10:47,440 you there's an old saying in alcoholics 275 00:10:52,790 --> 00:10:49,839 anonymous that goes uh what does it take 276 00:10:55,030 --> 00:10:52,800 for an alcoholic to relapse a broken 277 00:10:57,190 --> 00:10:55,040 shoelace and it's so true and we all 278 00:10:59,590 --> 00:10:57,200 have that it could be something like 279 00:11:02,710 --> 00:10:59,600 you're coping and the car doesn't start 280 00:11:05,509 --> 00:11:02,720 or some p or some shitty email from a 281 00:11:07,509 --> 00:11:05,519 client comes in or or your spouse is 282 00:11:09,430 --> 00:11:07,519 having a bad day and just rubs you wrong 283 00:11:11,750 --> 00:11:09,440 of course we can the kids break 284 00:11:14,150 --> 00:11:11,760 something and suddenly you are off your 285 00:11:17,350 --> 00:11:14,160 game and we live in a culture where this 286 00:11:19,030 --> 00:11:17,360 you are off your game is more and more 287 00:11:21,030 --> 00:11:19,040 prevalent i mean 288 00:11:23,590 --> 00:11:21,040 as i'm sure you've heard people like 289 00:11:26,230 --> 00:11:23,600 jordan peterson and others talking about 290 00:11:28,710 --> 00:11:26,240 these are the best times less poverty 291 00:11:31,750 --> 00:11:28,720 less war and all that we've lifted all 292 00:11:33,750 --> 00:11:31,760 these people up from poverty in the 19th 293 00:11:34,790 --> 00:11:33,760 20th century and i'm saying yeah i agree 294 00:11:38,310 --> 00:11:34,800 but 295 00:11:39,670 --> 00:11:38,320 suicide depression anxiety domestic 296 00:11:42,949 --> 00:11:39,680 violence 297 00:11:45,509 --> 00:11:42,959 it's out of control and in 2020 which 298 00:11:48,389 --> 00:11:45,519 most people or the media overlooks it's 299 00:11:50,870 --> 00:11:48,399 just getting worse so this is sort of my 300 00:11:51,590 --> 00:11:50,880 contribution that has helped me it's 301 00:11:54,550 --> 00:11:51,600 from 302 00:11:56,629 --> 00:11:54,560 hallow traditions uh various traditions 303 00:11:59,190 --> 00:11:56,639 pick the meditation that works for you 304 00:12:01,509 --> 00:11:59,200 and hopefully i will add some more as 305 00:12:03,509 --> 00:12:01,519 they go because uh i think we need these 306 00:12:06,629 --> 00:12:03,519 more than ever alex 307 00:12:09,430 --> 00:12:06,639 awesome and let's highlight two words 308 00:12:11,190 --> 00:12:09,440 snackable and meditation so one these 309 00:12:14,069 --> 00:12:11,200 might not be 310 00:12:16,150 --> 00:12:14,079 what people would expect on meta when 311 00:12:20,389 --> 00:12:16,160 they hear the term meditation 312 00:12:22,389 --> 00:12:20,399 they expect a long arduous sit 313 00:12:25,269 --> 00:12:22,399 with that firm with that firm back in 314 00:12:27,030 --> 00:12:25,279 that bamboo slap if you don't do it and 315 00:12:29,509 --> 00:12:27,040 it's uh the opposite of that and it's 316 00:12:32,710 --> 00:12:29,519 snackable here's one 317 00:12:34,310 --> 00:12:32,720 live life as if everything is rigged in 318 00:12:35,990 --> 00:12:34,320 your favor 319 00:12:38,230 --> 00:12:36,000 oh i love that 320 00:12:40,470 --> 00:12:38,240 yeah that's so that's a meditation from 321 00:12:41,829 --> 00:12:40,480 the book people i just gave one away you 322 00:12:43,509 --> 00:12:41,839 can still get them but you have to have 323 00:12:46,389 --> 00:12:43,519 the book in your pocket so you can pull 324 00:12:48,790 --> 00:12:46,399 it out and remember but tell us tell us 325 00:12:52,069 --> 00:12:48,800 about that i love that one it was 326 00:12:55,590 --> 00:12:52,079 from uh from roomie and of course the 327 00:12:57,829 --> 00:12:55,600 sufism is a form of islamic gnosticism 328 00:13:01,350 --> 00:12:57,839 and some of these are you might say how 329 00:13:04,069 --> 00:13:01,360 to reorient your brain your attitude and 330 00:13:08,069 --> 00:13:04,079 all that as quickly as possible so you 331 00:13:09,750 --> 00:13:08,079 don't just get swept away by the day's 332 00:13:11,590 --> 00:13:09,760 stress and 333 00:13:14,629 --> 00:13:11,600 flows and all the things that are going 334 00:13:16,870 --> 00:13:14,639 on today so a sort of attitude change 335 00:13:18,550 --> 00:13:16,880 can really make a difference and 336 00:13:21,190 --> 00:13:18,560 sometimes it can really 337 00:13:23,750 --> 00:13:21,200 help you or at least create a buffer 338 00:13:26,069 --> 00:13:23,760 until you hopefully will find the more 339 00:13:28,230 --> 00:13:26,079 serious stuff again you should have a 340 00:13:30,629 --> 00:13:28,240 good meditation practice that is more 341 00:13:31,590 --> 00:13:30,639 formal takes you know half an hour to an 342 00:13:33,430 --> 00:13:31,600 hour 343 00:13:35,829 --> 00:13:33,440 but to get there you can't just go into 344 00:13:39,110 --> 00:13:35,839 the i guess you could go into the work 345 00:13:41,670 --> 00:13:39,120 your works uh uh closet or bathroom and 346 00:13:43,509 --> 00:13:41,680 meditate for a half an hour i guess you 347 00:13:44,310 --> 00:13:43,519 kind of could if you were desperate but 348 00:13:49,670 --> 00:13:44,320 uh 349 00:13:50,790 --> 00:13:49,680 hacks as i call them can really help out 350 00:13:53,030 --> 00:13:50,800 i mean and 351 00:13:54,710 --> 00:13:53,040 that just that change of attitude can 352 00:13:56,710 --> 00:13:54,720 make a big difference i mean there's 353 00:13:58,870 --> 00:13:56,720 again i go back to alcoholics anonymous 354 00:14:00,949 --> 00:13:58,880 there's a saying uh when things are 355 00:14:03,910 --> 00:14:00,959 falling apart it means they're really 356 00:14:06,310 --> 00:14:03,920 coming together and as silly as stuart 357 00:14:08,230 --> 00:14:06,320 smalley as they might sound from 358 00:14:11,110 --> 00:14:08,240 saturday night live 359 00:14:12,790 --> 00:14:11,120 uh it is true because having a vision 360 00:14:15,829 --> 00:14:12,800 and seeing the bigger picture and how 361 00:14:18,230 --> 00:14:15,839 opportunity can appear when things seem 362 00:14:19,829 --> 00:14:18,240 to be closing down in certain ways can 363 00:14:22,150 --> 00:14:19,839 be really important whether it's in the 364 00:14:24,710 --> 00:14:22,160 macro of your everyday or your larger 365 00:14:27,590 --> 00:14:24,720 picture of your career we all have the 366 00:14:30,069 --> 00:14:27,600 ability to navigate and find opportunity 367 00:14:31,430 --> 00:14:30,079 and fulfill our potential 368 00:14:33,269 --> 00:14:31,440 yeah that's great you know one of the 369 00:14:35,910 --> 00:14:33,279 things i appreciated about the book and 370 00:14:38,150 --> 00:14:35,920 the meditations were you included this 371 00:14:40,230 --> 00:14:38,160 huge body of 372 00:14:42,150 --> 00:14:40,240 inspirational work that most people 373 00:14:44,550 --> 00:14:42,160 completely overlook and that's kind of 374 00:14:46,230 --> 00:14:44,560 from the entrepreneurial business 375 00:14:48,069 --> 00:14:46,240 self-development 376 00:14:50,629 --> 00:14:48,079 kind of arena and there's some great 377 00:14:52,470 --> 00:14:50,639 ones here's one from your book 378 00:14:54,629 --> 00:14:52,480 it doesn't matter what kind of day 379 00:14:56,710 --> 00:14:54,639 you're having the fact that you're 380 00:14:59,269 --> 00:14:56,720 having another day is enough to be 381 00:15:00,870 --> 00:14:59,279 grateful for now that's one we've all 382 00:15:02,870 --> 00:15:00,880 heard different versions of it i love 383 00:15:05,750 --> 00:15:02,880 that one but tell people where that came 384 00:15:07,430 --> 00:15:05,760 from because i think it's cool 385 00:15:09,509 --> 00:15:07,440 yeah is that the one for i think that's 386 00:15:12,710 --> 00:15:09,519 the one from bradley isn't it is that 387 00:15:15,189 --> 00:15:12,720 the one yeah yeah i mean and this is 388 00:15:17,829 --> 00:15:15,199 to it and he has this uh 389 00:15:21,189 --> 00:15:17,839 spiritual exercise and this guy is uh a 390 00:15:22,790 --> 00:15:21,199 sales guru he lives in vegas and all 391 00:15:25,910 --> 00:15:22,800 that but he does 392 00:15:28,069 --> 00:15:25,920 have that sensibility of using like you 393 00:15:31,430 --> 00:15:28,079 said self-help uh 394 00:15:34,949 --> 00:15:31,440 mysticism to sort of uh manage stress 395 00:15:37,110 --> 00:15:34,959 and he came up with his hack and he said 396 00:15:39,509 --> 00:15:37,120 imagine you wake up in the morning and 397 00:15:40,389 --> 00:15:39,519 somebody offers you let's say a million 398 00:15:42,870 --> 00:15:40,399 dollars 399 00:15:45,189 --> 00:15:42,880 and you're like okay that's great and he 400 00:15:47,030 --> 00:15:45,199 says how would your day go if somebody 401 00:15:49,670 --> 00:15:47,040 plopped a million dollars into your 402 00:15:51,990 --> 00:15:49,680 account or a big bag of money and most 403 00:15:54,949 --> 00:15:52,000 people will say i'm gonna have a great 404 00:15:57,509 --> 00:15:54,959 day instant you know the possibilities 405 00:16:00,069 --> 00:15:57,519 have opened the potential is open the 406 00:16:01,269 --> 00:16:00,079 mind you're you feel freer and lighter 407 00:16:03,269 --> 00:16:01,279 you're gonna go through and you're gonna 408 00:16:05,990 --> 00:16:03,279 call people like we're gonna do this and 409 00:16:08,629 --> 00:16:06,000 go on vacation and invest and 410 00:16:11,509 --> 00:16:08,639 uh you're just gonna be happier 411 00:16:13,350 --> 00:16:11,519 and then in his exercise he says well 412 00:16:16,230 --> 00:16:13,360 imagine if that person said all right 413 00:16:19,269 --> 00:16:16,240 you can have a million dollars today 414 00:16:21,590 --> 00:16:19,279 but the catch is you don't get to wake 415 00:16:23,509 --> 00:16:21,600 up tomorrow this is it you're one day 416 00:16:25,269 --> 00:16:23,519 with a million dollars 417 00:16:27,430 --> 00:16:25,279 and he then he asked well what would you 418 00:16:29,269 --> 00:16:27,440 choose and most people would say 419 00:16:31,350 --> 00:16:29,279 screw that i don't want a million 420 00:16:33,350 --> 00:16:31,360 dollars i want to wake up tomorrow i 421 00:16:35,350 --> 00:16:33,360 want the rest of my life to continue and 422 00:16:38,470 --> 00:16:35,360 then he asked in a very 423 00:16:40,470 --> 00:16:38,480 uh rhetorical way well in that case does 424 00:16:42,470 --> 00:16:40,480 that mean what's more valuable you 425 00:16:44,470 --> 00:16:42,480 waking up in the morning or a million 426 00:16:46,949 --> 00:16:44,480 dollars and that kind of makes you think 427 00:16:48,870 --> 00:16:46,959 it's like no me waking up in the morning 428 00:16:51,110 --> 00:16:48,880 is more valuable than a million dollars 429 00:16:53,990 --> 00:16:51,120 than a billion dollars and a trillion 430 00:16:55,829 --> 00:16:54,000 dollars and he proposes the question 431 00:16:57,910 --> 00:16:55,839 well why don't you act like you're 432 00:17:00,389 --> 00:16:57,920 waking up to the world is the most 433 00:17:01,509 --> 00:17:00,399 valuable thing in the world and that 434 00:17:04,069 --> 00:17:01,519 simple 435 00:17:06,710 --> 00:17:04,079 uh meditation in the morning can be a 436 00:17:08,230 --> 00:17:06,720 huge adjustment to your attitude to your 437 00:17:10,309 --> 00:17:08,240 energy and 438 00:17:13,110 --> 00:17:10,319 even to what you accomplished that day 439 00:17:15,510 --> 00:17:13,120 so these sort of little tricks and 440 00:17:17,750 --> 00:17:15,520 reorientations of the mind these little 441 00:17:20,230 --> 00:17:17,760 programming hacks 442 00:17:22,390 --> 00:17:20,240 can make a difference again they're not 443 00:17:23,350 --> 00:17:22,400 totally transformational the book tries 444 00:17:25,350 --> 00:17:23,360 to give 445 00:17:27,590 --> 00:17:25,360 i give links and 446 00:17:30,230 --> 00:17:27,600 bigger quotes and talk about these 447 00:17:33,110 --> 00:17:30,240 traditions if you so decide to choose to 448 00:17:35,029 --> 00:17:33,120 take them to help you out on your road 449 00:17:36,549 --> 00:17:35,039 and i try to kept it as varied as 450 00:17:38,470 --> 00:17:36,559 possible because 451 00:17:40,789 --> 00:17:38,480 everybody's different i assume everybody 452 00:17:43,510 --> 00:17:40,799 has a different spiritual psychological 453 00:17:46,630 --> 00:17:43,520 makeup so i have uh i have christian 454 00:17:49,750 --> 00:17:46,640 muslim new age occult uh 455 00:17:53,510 --> 00:17:49,760 all these varied traditions so that a 456 00:17:55,590 --> 00:17:53,520 person can find what works for them 457 00:17:57,510 --> 00:17:55,600 hey you just you just hit on one of my 458 00:18:00,870 --> 00:17:57,520 hot buttons i'm gonna go skeptical on 459 00:18:04,310 --> 00:18:00,880 you you walked right into it you walked 460 00:18:05,830 --> 00:18:04,320 right into miguel yeah you couldn't 461 00:18:07,029 --> 00:18:05,840 if you wouldn't have if you wouldn't 462 00:18:08,789 --> 00:18:07,039 have walked right into it i would have 463 00:18:10,470 --> 00:18:08,799 pulled you right in 464 00:18:13,750 --> 00:18:10,480 okay here's another one 465 00:18:15,750 --> 00:18:13,760 lord i offer this sacrifice to you for 466 00:18:18,390 --> 00:18:15,760 and then for the person 467 00:18:21,190 --> 00:18:18,400 god had once here's another one god had 468 00:18:25,990 --> 00:18:21,200 one sin on earth without sin but no one 469 00:18:28,710 --> 00:18:26,000 without suffering so yeah no no 470 00:18:32,150 --> 00:18:28,720 i ain't buying it i mean no here's my 471 00:18:33,909 --> 00:18:32,160 point diversity is overrated like i just 472 00:18:36,310 --> 00:18:33,919 had this thing the other day and i don't 473 00:18:38,390 --> 00:18:36,320 know if i uh who i offended on in this 474 00:18:39,510 --> 00:18:38,400 one but it's like no i don't respect 475 00:18:45,430 --> 00:18:39,520 your beliefs 476 00:18:46,230 --> 00:18:45,440 of public opinion i mean i'm not going 477 00:18:47,190 --> 00:18:46,240 to go 478 00:18:49,270 --> 00:18:47,200 you know 479 00:18:52,870 --> 00:18:49,280 barricade your house or throw firebombs 480 00:18:55,270 --> 00:18:52,880 at you but no i if you're a mormon if 481 00:18:56,870 --> 00:18:55,280 you're a scientologist if you're a 482 00:18:59,350 --> 00:18:56,880 mooney i just interviewed great guy i 483 00:19:02,230 --> 00:18:59,360 love the guy 30 years of mooney 484 00:19:04,230 --> 00:19:02,240 no no no no i don't respect your beliefs 485 00:19:06,710 --> 00:19:04,240 if you're christian i was gonna say 486 00:19:09,270 --> 00:19:06,720 fundamentals christian but that's just 487 00:19:11,830 --> 00:19:09,280 passing it off no i don't necessarily 488 00:19:15,029 --> 00:19:11,840 respect your beliefs and as a matter of 489 00:19:17,590 --> 00:19:15,039 fact this quote that you've given 490 00:19:19,270 --> 00:19:17,600 in a lot of ways so it might connect 491 00:19:21,669 --> 00:19:19,280 with some people and that's what i hear 492 00:19:24,950 --> 00:19:21,679 you saying kind of smorgasbord style so 493 00:19:26,470 --> 00:19:24,960 let me turn this into a question 494 00:19:29,110 --> 00:19:26,480 from uh 495 00:19:30,390 --> 00:19:29,120 a on bite gnostic 496 00:19:32,310 --> 00:19:30,400 toughness because there's a certain 497 00:19:35,669 --> 00:19:32,320 toughness to the gnosis and willing to 498 00:19:39,029 --> 00:19:35,679 face the fight the challenge head-on 499 00:19:41,510 --> 00:19:39,039 and i want to hear that uh there's one 500 00:19:43,750 --> 00:19:41,520 son on earth without sin wait a minute 501 00:19:44,950 --> 00:19:43,760 how did how do you know that that that's 502 00:19:48,950 --> 00:19:44,960 that is 503 00:19:50,870 --> 00:19:48,960 quotes in a way that i think we need to 504 00:19:53,430 --> 00:19:50,880 at least be explicit if somebody buys 505 00:19:55,430 --> 00:19:53,440 into that fine but no i i don't i don't 506 00:19:57,510 --> 00:19:55,440 i don't know that that god had one son 507 00:20:00,630 --> 00:19:57,520 on earth without sin i don't know that 508 00:20:03,430 --> 00:20:00,640 yeah i mean uh in a way 509 00:20:05,750 --> 00:20:03,440 between us and your audience it is a bit 510 00:20:08,390 --> 00:20:05,760 sneaky because augustine is a former 511 00:20:10,950 --> 00:20:08,400 gnostic he was a gnostic 512 00:20:12,789 --> 00:20:10,960 but he found he couldn't uh it didn't 513 00:20:15,029 --> 00:20:12,799 give him the structure that he wanted in 514 00:20:17,110 --> 00:20:15,039 other words he couldn't uh it could help 515 00:20:20,549 --> 00:20:17,120 him keep his dick in his pants 516 00:20:23,110 --> 00:20:20,559 so he went from gnosticism to uh 517 00:20:25,669 --> 00:20:23,120 catholicism or orthodox 518 00:20:28,710 --> 00:20:25,679 and he found the structure there but he 519 00:20:31,750 --> 00:20:28,720 even to the day he died he was accused 520 00:20:34,470 --> 00:20:31,760 of mixing in neoplatonic agnostic ideas 521 00:20:36,310 --> 00:20:34,480 into his form of christianity and i find 522 00:20:39,190 --> 00:20:36,320 a lot of his writings really beautiful 523 00:20:41,909 --> 00:20:39,200 and inspirational i just think he was he 524 00:20:44,549 --> 00:20:41,919 was searching as far as the suffering 525 00:20:46,950 --> 00:20:44,559 goes i mean it is true uh 526 00:20:49,590 --> 00:20:46,960 suffering is uh definitely for everybody 527 00:20:50,710 --> 00:20:49,600 and by the suffering i mean in buddhism 528 00:20:53,510 --> 00:20:50,720 what do you call it you call it 529 00:20:55,510 --> 00:20:53,520 suffering buddha saduka which is like a 530 00:20:57,750 --> 00:20:55,520 wheel that's always sort of loose when 531 00:21:00,230 --> 00:20:57,760 you're pulling the card it's very like 532 00:21:01,830 --> 00:21:00,240 morpheus says in the matrix you know 533 00:21:03,430 --> 00:21:01,840 there's something wrong with the world 534 00:21:05,750 --> 00:21:03,440 you don't know what it is it's like a 535 00:21:07,430 --> 00:21:05,760 splinter in your mind driving you mad i 536 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:07,440 think that's what the buddha we all know 537 00:21:12,710 --> 00:21:10,080 there's something wrong i think 2021 and 538 00:21:14,470 --> 00:21:12,720 2020 stressed that and we don't know 539 00:21:16,789 --> 00:21:14,480 what to do we're really uncomfortable in 540 00:21:18,950 --> 00:21:16,799 our skin and our minds so that's what he 541 00:21:21,590 --> 00:21:18,960 was referring to as uh 542 00:21:24,149 --> 00:21:21,600 as suffering and uh um obviously 543 00:21:26,950 --> 00:21:24,159 everybody suffers because life brings 544 00:21:28,470 --> 00:21:26,960 you what life brings you so um i don't 545 00:21:30,549 --> 00:21:28,480 know why i got into that tangent about 546 00:21:32,310 --> 00:21:30,559 you that wasn't that wasn't a tangent i 547 00:21:34,789 --> 00:21:32,320 was pulling you into the deep waters and 548 00:21:36,310 --> 00:21:34,799 as usual you swim you swim with no 549 00:21:38,470 --> 00:21:36,320 problem to the side of the pool no 550 00:21:39,990 --> 00:21:38,480 matter where i pull you but i'll i'll 551 00:21:42,630 --> 00:21:40,000 follow up on that 552 00:21:44,470 --> 00:21:42,640 i love the business quote like i said 553 00:21:47,270 --> 00:21:44,480 one of the most then uh 554 00:21:49,029 --> 00:21:47,280 tim grimes who is a fantastic uh i loved 555 00:21:51,029 --> 00:21:49,039 him and he was on the show recently to 556 00:21:54,070 --> 00:21:51,039 talk about his book the joy of not 557 00:21:55,669 --> 00:21:54,080 thinking which is very non-dual and very 558 00:21:57,270 --> 00:21:55,679 in keeping with this conversation we're 559 00:21:58,789 --> 00:21:57,280 having but 560 00:22:00,789 --> 00:21:58,799 he turned me on to the fact that 561 00:22:02,630 --> 00:22:00,799 napoleon hill of course one of the most 562 00:22:04,549 --> 00:22:02,640 famous foundational business writers of 563 00:22:06,549 --> 00:22:04,559 all time authored think and grow rich 564 00:22:09,270 --> 00:22:06,559 which became the kind of seminal book 565 00:22:12,549 --> 00:22:09,280 that everyone's built off of scam artist 566 00:22:15,350 --> 00:22:12,559 complete scam artist 567 00:22:17,350 --> 00:22:15,360 and they go back and they retrace his 568 00:22:19,190 --> 00:22:17,360 history and he's a scoundrel from the 569 00:22:22,149 --> 00:22:19,200 beginning all the stuff he's doing he's 570 00:22:22,950 --> 00:22:22,159 trying to do this business scam and you 571 00:22:25,510 --> 00:22:22,960 know 572 00:22:28,789 --> 00:22:25,520 leaving abandoning this child in this 573 00:22:31,430 --> 00:22:28,799 state and moving to another just 574 00:22:33,990 --> 00:22:31,440 and like when we move into the spiritual 575 00:22:36,710 --> 00:22:34,000 realm we find that or the people who are 576 00:22:39,270 --> 00:22:36,720 trying to co-op spirituality we find the 577 00:22:41,669 --> 00:22:39,280 same thing you know the david koresh is 578 00:22:44,230 --> 00:22:41,679 the example i've been using lately of 579 00:22:46,230 --> 00:22:44,240 course the branch davidian waco thing 580 00:22:48,310 --> 00:22:46,240 it's a little bit past maybe what some 581 00:22:49,990 --> 00:22:48,320 people remember but 582 00:22:52,470 --> 00:22:50,000 i just stumbled across this little 583 00:22:54,789 --> 00:22:52,480 factoid that one one of the ways that 584 00:22:57,510 --> 00:22:54,799 david koresh really 585 00:22:59,750 --> 00:22:57,520 kind of hoodwinked all these good honest 586 00:23:01,990 --> 00:22:59,760 christians was he had this incredible 587 00:23:05,510 --> 00:23:02,000 photographic memory and had virtually 588 00:23:07,909 --> 00:23:05,520 memorized the bible so he could spew out 589 00:23:09,190 --> 00:23:07,919 scripture just boom boom boom off the 590 00:23:12,630 --> 00:23:09,200 top of his head 591 00:23:15,350 --> 00:23:12,640 so what he also like to do is 592 00:23:17,350 --> 00:23:15,360 12 year old and 13 year old girls 593 00:23:20,070 --> 00:23:17,360 so combine those 594 00:23:25,909 --> 00:23:23,590 combine those two interests and 595 00:23:28,149 --> 00:23:25,919 and uh what he had was 596 00:23:30,149 --> 00:23:28,159 he would go to these people that he 597 00:23:32,549 --> 00:23:30,159 would lure to his little compound as 598 00:23:34,950 --> 00:23:32,559 this kind of great you know commune and 599 00:23:37,270 --> 00:23:34,960 stuff like that and he'd say look 600 00:23:39,350 --> 00:23:37,280 i tell you what i've talked to the man 601 00:23:41,990 --> 00:23:39,360 and jesus has told me i need to have a 602 00:23:44,710 --> 00:23:42,000 thousand wives and i need to really kind 603 00:23:46,390 --> 00:23:44,720 of start this whole new thing 604 00:23:48,390 --> 00:23:46,400 and you know what i'm checking out your 605 00:23:51,269 --> 00:23:48,400 daughter over there i think she'd be i 606 00:23:53,350 --> 00:23:51,279 think she'd be right in one of jesus's 607 00:23:55,830 --> 00:23:53,360 flock here right from the beginning she 608 00:23:58,789 --> 00:23:55,840 ought to be one of my wives and he had 609 00:24:02,230 --> 00:23:58,799 many many of these 610 00:24:03,350 --> 00:24:02,240 very young teenage girl wives you know 611 00:24:08,470 --> 00:24:03,360 and 612 00:24:10,950 --> 00:24:08,480 you know we all hear oh my they crammed 613 00:24:12,230 --> 00:24:10,960 well it wasn't such a great place and 614 00:24:14,870 --> 00:24:12,240 they probably didn't handle it well but 615 00:24:16,230 --> 00:24:14,880 the point the point is the sage on the 616 00:24:18,149 --> 00:24:16,240 stage 617 00:24:20,950 --> 00:24:18,159 it's like a conversation we had before 618 00:24:22,950 --> 00:24:20,960 sp and what i think and bite is about 619 00:24:25,510 --> 00:24:22,960 and what you are about is 620 00:24:28,789 --> 00:24:25,520 spiritual disintermediation 621 00:24:30,950 --> 00:24:28,799 you don't need david koresh to tell you 622 00:24:32,630 --> 00:24:30,960 about your spiritual experience to 623 00:24:35,110 --> 00:24:32,640 reinterpret it 624 00:24:36,950 --> 00:24:35,120 and we don't need christianity to do 625 00:24:38,230 --> 00:24:36,960 that and we don't need their book that 626 00:24:39,990 --> 00:24:38,240 people can 627 00:24:41,669 --> 00:24:40,000 memorize and no matter who it is and we 628 00:24:45,430 --> 00:24:41,679 don't need 629 00:24:46,710 --> 00:24:45,440 you know uh osha up in oregon in his 630 00:24:49,990 --> 00:24:46,720 cult 631 00:24:55,510 --> 00:24:53,750 we don't need any of those guys uh is 632 00:24:56,549 --> 00:24:55,520 that no it's not ocean what is it it's 633 00:25:01,590 --> 00:24:56,559 uh 634 00:25:04,789 --> 00:25:01,600 so 635 00:25:08,149 --> 00:25:04,799 the the you know do we have to be 636 00:25:10,390 --> 00:25:08,159 where do we draw that line you know so 637 00:25:11,909 --> 00:25:10,400 how do you do that how do you balance 638 00:25:15,029 --> 00:25:11,919 the 639 00:25:16,870 --> 00:25:15,039 ten snackable meditations smorgasbord 640 00:25:18,710 --> 00:25:16,880 find what you like 641 00:25:20,630 --> 00:25:18,720 write your own gospel 642 00:25:23,029 --> 00:25:20,640 create your own 643 00:25:24,470 --> 00:25:23,039 myth which is so beautiful 644 00:25:27,029 --> 00:25:24,480 with 645 00:25:28,950 --> 00:25:27,039 don't be a chump i mean be be looking 646 00:25:30,630 --> 00:25:28,960 out for people who are going to try and 647 00:25:33,110 --> 00:25:30,640 co-opt your 648 00:25:35,110 --> 00:25:33,120 spiritual experience and i think that's 649 00:25:36,630 --> 00:25:35,120 also very much in keeping with what 650 00:25:39,350 --> 00:25:36,640 we're talking about with what's going on 651 00:25:41,909 --> 00:25:39,360 in the last couple years 652 00:25:44,710 --> 00:25:41,919 yeah i think that's well said alex uh i 653 00:25:47,990 --> 00:25:44,720 always tell people 654 00:25:50,390 --> 00:25:48,000 that we are all points of light 655 00:25:53,269 --> 00:25:50,400 trying to on a journey passing each 656 00:25:55,269 --> 00:25:53,279 other by inspiring each other 657 00:25:57,590 --> 00:25:55,279 and that's the attitude it should be you 658 00:25:59,269 --> 00:25:57,600 shouldn't have any sort of guru or 659 00:26:00,789 --> 00:25:59,279 anything like that 660 00:26:03,669 --> 00:26:00,799 at the end of the day it's your 661 00:26:06,390 --> 00:26:03,679 salvation your unique journey 662 00:26:08,630 --> 00:26:06,400 and you are there to inspire others and 663 00:26:10,950 --> 00:26:08,640 then move on in your journey just as 664 00:26:13,110 --> 00:26:10,960 others should inspire you and you know 665 00:26:15,110 --> 00:26:13,120 the passing ships in the night i think 666 00:26:16,950 --> 00:26:15,120 that's the that's definitely the best 667 00:26:19,590 --> 00:26:16,960 attitude to have create your own 668 00:26:22,230 --> 00:26:19,600 narrative to life don't let others 669 00:26:24,870 --> 00:26:22,240 write those because if we're in a stage 670 00:26:27,190 --> 00:26:24,880 where reality is gonna disappoint us 671 00:26:29,590 --> 00:26:27,200 sorry but every single human being out 672 00:26:31,510 --> 00:26:29,600 there is gonna disappoint us and what 673 00:26:33,990 --> 00:26:31,520 can be weaponized 674 00:26:36,950 --> 00:26:34,000 will be weaponized or is already 675 00:26:40,549 --> 00:26:36,960 weaponized if the roman empire had a 676 00:26:42,549 --> 00:26:40,559 complete lockdown on everything same 677 00:26:45,029 --> 00:26:42,559 with the today with the american empire 678 00:26:46,789 --> 00:26:45,039 and the cia i mean i've gone through 679 00:26:49,190 --> 00:26:46,799 that journey 680 00:26:51,750 --> 00:26:49,200 a writer who i love gabrielle garcia 681 00:26:53,430 --> 00:26:51,760 marquez you know the famous communist 682 00:26:56,870 --> 00:26:53,440 that was banned from coming into the 683 00:26:59,750 --> 00:26:56,880 united states on the cia payroll frank 684 00:27:02,070 --> 00:26:59,760 zappa remember mr i'm going to fight tip 685 00:27:05,110 --> 00:27:02,080 or gore for free speech and 686 00:27:07,510 --> 00:27:05,120 we were us gen x we're like all right 687 00:27:09,950 --> 00:27:07,520 yeah we got to defend oh military 688 00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:09,960 intelligence and you go i mean you can 689 00:27:15,830 --> 00:27:13,600 pythagoras was probably a spy for some 690 00:27:18,230 --> 00:27:15,840 government i mean it's this is the world 691 00:27:20,870 --> 00:27:18,240 we live in what can be weaponized has 692 00:27:23,430 --> 00:27:20,880 already been weaponized so you need to 693 00:27:25,510 --> 00:27:23,440 know this and accept this and find your 694 00:27:27,750 --> 00:27:25,520 own inner light because 695 00:27:29,750 --> 00:27:27,760 that's just the it's just the way it is 696 00:27:32,149 --> 00:27:29,760 what's the saying if it can be destroyed 697 00:27:34,230 --> 00:27:32,159 by the truth and it deserves to be 698 00:27:36,630 --> 00:27:34,240 destroyed by the truth but that doesn't 699 00:27:39,269 --> 00:27:36,640 change the game of your awakening your 700 00:27:41,510 --> 00:27:39,279 awakening is still the most important 701 00:27:44,310 --> 00:27:41,520 thing that you will have your 702 00:27:47,110 --> 00:27:44,320 self-knowledge and who these people and 703 00:27:48,950 --> 00:27:47,120 gurus and what they corrupt and destroy 704 00:27:51,190 --> 00:27:48,960 really has nothing to do with it and you 705 00:27:53,669 --> 00:27:51,200 can move on again with ten snackable 706 00:27:57,190 --> 00:27:53,679 meditations move on to the next slide 707 00:27:58,789 --> 00:27:57,200 and get inspired and move away uh even 708 00:28:01,110 --> 00:27:58,799 the buddhists say if you see the buddha 709 00:28:04,230 --> 00:28:01,120 on the road kill him i always say same 710 00:28:05,909 --> 00:28:04,240 with jesus same with your heroes same 711 00:28:07,830 --> 00:28:05,919 with your parents and you know 712 00:28:09,190 --> 00:28:07,840 metaphoric you know i'm not saying 713 00:28:10,549 --> 00:28:09,200 literally but 714 00:28:13,029 --> 00:28:10,559 kill them also 715 00:28:15,269 --> 00:28:13,039 it's your road it's your road man 716 00:28:16,870 --> 00:28:15,279 uh oh just so 717 00:28:19,029 --> 00:28:16,880 inspirationally 718 00:28:21,110 --> 00:28:19,039 said and uh you know the parents thing 719 00:28:23,590 --> 00:28:21,120 to me is like the way that i hear you 720 00:28:25,350 --> 00:28:23,600 saying that is like if you 721 00:28:27,190 --> 00:28:25,360 i was just having this conversation uh 722 00:28:28,230 --> 00:28:27,200 with my friend mark palmer and his 723 00:28:30,389 --> 00:28:28,240 podcast 724 00:28:31,990 --> 00:28:30,399 my family thinks i'm crazy and we were 725 00:28:34,789 --> 00:28:32,000 talking about 726 00:28:37,190 --> 00:28:34,799 just how how difficult this path is any 727 00:28:39,350 --> 00:28:37,200 path that is a spiritual path that is 728 00:28:40,710 --> 00:28:39,360 truly this trying to tap into the inner 729 00:28:43,830 --> 00:28:40,720 part and 730 00:28:45,990 --> 00:28:43,840 when you walk into the 731 00:28:47,669 --> 00:28:46,000 and you have the divine and it comes 732 00:28:49,269 --> 00:28:47,679 through the trees and you never thought 733 00:28:51,990 --> 00:28:49,279 you'd experience it and you experienced 734 00:28:54,389 --> 00:28:52,000 love like you've never had before 735 00:28:57,909 --> 00:28:54,399 and then you come home and mom and dad 736 00:29:00,630 --> 00:28:57,919 say oh no son oh no honey that's not 737 00:29:02,789 --> 00:29:00,640 what we believe we don't believe that 738 00:29:04,950 --> 00:29:02,799 and then you go oh we we don't believe 739 00:29:06,870 --> 00:29:04,960 that mom and dad mom and dad are good 740 00:29:09,830 --> 00:29:06,880 people and i know they're good people 741 00:29:11,909 --> 00:29:09,840 and grandma and grandpa are good people 742 00:29:14,310 --> 00:29:11,919 they all believe that that's not that my 743 00:29:15,350 --> 00:29:14,320 experience is not good not 744 00:29:17,350 --> 00:29:15,360 that's 745 00:29:19,750 --> 00:29:17,360 the buddha that you're talking about 746 00:29:22,230 --> 00:29:19,760 that needs to be 747 00:29:23,990 --> 00:29:22,240 we need to step over that buddha and get 748 00:29:25,990 --> 00:29:24,000 to the other side which maybe brings me 749 00:29:27,750 --> 00:29:26,000 to the the final uh quote that i was 750 00:29:29,590 --> 00:29:27,760 going to tee up to people from 10 751 00:29:34,310 --> 00:29:29,600 snackable meditations 752 00:29:40,549 --> 00:29:37,669 this is not a battle of good versus evil 753 00:29:43,430 --> 00:29:40,559 this is a battle of you 754 00:29:45,110 --> 00:29:43,440 versus lack of you 755 00:29:47,029 --> 00:29:45,120 that's what you were saying i think so 756 00:29:48,710 --> 00:29:47,039 talk about that as we 757 00:29:51,269 --> 00:29:48,720 finish talking about yeah that's uh 758 00:29:53,990 --> 00:29:51,279 that's from james true which is his book 759 00:29:56,389 --> 00:29:54,000 best apocalypse ever how we should 760 00:29:58,950 --> 00:29:56,399 whatever happened in 2020 we should be 761 00:30:01,510 --> 00:29:58,960 very grateful to the powers that be 762 00:30:03,510 --> 00:30:01,520 because they have just opened the veils 763 00:30:06,310 --> 00:30:03,520 and showed us so much about the world 764 00:30:09,350 --> 00:30:06,320 and ourselves how we were tested 765 00:30:11,190 --> 00:30:09,360 so i certainly agree with that point and 766 00:30:13,110 --> 00:30:11,200 it is true because 767 00:30:14,950 --> 00:30:13,120 we are here 768 00:30:17,269 --> 00:30:14,960 that's what carl jung said and it's a 769 00:30:19,510 --> 00:30:17,279 book too we're not here to be good we're 770 00:30:22,230 --> 00:30:19,520 here to be ourselves i mean we don't 771 00:30:25,029 --> 00:30:22,240 know who we are yet we're all gonna try 772 00:30:27,269 --> 00:30:25,039 to solve the world and we end up 773 00:30:30,070 --> 00:30:27,279 as you're saying falling into some cult 774 00:30:31,750 --> 00:30:30,080 or some political party because 775 00:30:34,310 --> 00:30:31,760 we don't know who we are and we gotta 776 00:30:35,909 --> 00:30:34,320 find out what is our purpose who are we 777 00:30:38,310 --> 00:30:35,919 and there's so many layers of 778 00:30:40,789 --> 00:30:38,320 programming and that we have to 779 00:30:43,990 --> 00:30:40,799 go through when that happens is i tell 780 00:30:46,549 --> 00:30:44,000 people once you start waking up uh what 781 00:30:49,110 --> 00:30:46,559 did anthony demelo said spirituality is 782 00:30:51,430 --> 00:30:49,120 waking up and clark emery the famous 783 00:30:53,990 --> 00:30:51,440 buddhist scholar said the awakening of 784 00:30:56,389 --> 00:30:54,000 an individual is a cosmic event 785 00:30:58,870 --> 00:30:56,399 once you find out who you are 786 00:31:01,990 --> 00:30:58,880 then the answers will come in a very 787 00:31:04,630 --> 00:31:02,000 silent automatic way you'll find like me 788 00:31:07,269 --> 00:31:04,640 doing 10 snackable meditations or am 789 00:31:09,830 --> 00:31:07,279 bite it just it comes to you and you go 790 00:31:11,830 --> 00:31:09,840 with it and it's beyond your egoic 791 00:31:13,750 --> 00:31:11,840 constructed self i mean you're talking 792 00:31:16,870 --> 00:31:13,760 about parents and 793 00:31:18,950 --> 00:31:16,880 i know i can blame my parents but 794 00:31:22,470 --> 00:31:18,960 my programming certainly did a lot of 795 00:31:24,710 --> 00:31:22,480 damage to my kids i remember a union guy 796 00:31:26,710 --> 00:31:24,720 saying uh the parent's job is to break 797 00:31:28,710 --> 00:31:26,720 the souls of our children and i'd be 798 00:31:30,149 --> 00:31:28,720 like oh that's crazy but it is true like 799 00:31:33,990 --> 00:31:30,159 school 800 00:31:37,269 --> 00:31:34,000 something wrong with this like a 801 00:31:39,110 --> 00:31:37,279 splintering in my mind driving me crazy 802 00:31:41,590 --> 00:31:39,120 and but i thought well i got to send my 803 00:31:44,149 --> 00:31:41,600 kids to school and i did but then you 804 00:31:46,149 --> 00:31:44,159 start realizing wait a second school is 805 00:31:48,950 --> 00:31:46,159 just like a prison and there's memes on 806 00:31:51,110 --> 00:31:48,960 the internet right the bus the cafeteria 807 00:31:53,669 --> 00:31:51,120 the the what the architecture and you go 808 00:31:57,190 --> 00:31:53,679 holy schools are prisons it's a 809 00:31:59,750 --> 00:31:57,200 place to dehumanize our children and 810 00:32:01,669 --> 00:31:59,760 programming and stop their potential 811 00:32:03,190 --> 00:32:01,679 it's nothing like the waldorf schools or 812 00:32:05,269 --> 00:32:03,200 anything like that and 813 00:32:06,870 --> 00:32:05,279 with my first marriage i send my kids to 814 00:32:08,789 --> 00:32:06,880 school but in this marriage it's like 815 00:32:10,389 --> 00:32:08,799 they are completely homeschooled and 816 00:32:12,870 --> 00:32:10,399 they're obviously 817 00:32:15,190 --> 00:32:12,880 mentally academically all that they're 818 00:32:16,950 --> 00:32:15,200 far ahead of kids that go to school at 819 00:32:18,549 --> 00:32:16,960 least here in illinois i can't judge 820 00:32:21,990 --> 00:32:18,559 anywhere else so 821 00:32:24,630 --> 00:32:22,000 uh yeah find out who you are that is the 822 00:32:27,669 --> 00:32:24,640 great uh rebellion finding out who you 823 00:32:29,830 --> 00:32:27,679 are is what they whoever they are don't 824 00:32:32,149 --> 00:32:29,840 want you to find out and that's where 825 00:32:34,389 --> 00:32:32,159 you find out your purpose your peace and 826 00:32:36,070 --> 00:32:34,399 all that so that's the journey i 827 00:32:38,630 --> 00:32:36,080 certainly advise to people instead of 828 00:32:41,909 --> 00:32:38,640 trying to go out and change the world or 829 00:32:44,149 --> 00:32:41,919 assimilate to some system or religion or 830 00:32:46,630 --> 00:32:44,159 anything like that as you can see alex 831 00:32:48,789 --> 00:32:46,640 i'd be the worst guru in the world i 832 00:32:51,350 --> 00:32:48,799 would never make any 833 00:32:53,350 --> 00:32:51,360 not good at it because people email me 834 00:32:56,950 --> 00:32:53,360 and they say well what are some gnostic 835 00:32:58,870 --> 00:32:56,960 practices and i said well only you know 836 00:33:01,669 --> 00:32:58,880 you got to find out who you are what 837 00:33:04,630 --> 00:33:01,679 works for you and you've got to create a 838 00:33:07,029 --> 00:33:04,640 life a system a gospel and a myth 839 00:33:10,149 --> 00:33:07,039 that brings out your inner light i can't 840 00:33:11,909 --> 00:33:10,159 help you nobody can help you well it's 841 00:33:13,509 --> 00:33:11,919 funny that you say that you'd be a 842 00:33:14,950 --> 00:33:13,519 terrible guru because 843 00:33:16,149 --> 00:33:14,960 i've never talked to you about this but 844 00:33:18,149 --> 00:33:16,159 i'm sure 845 00:33:19,590 --> 00:33:18,159 you get pulled into being a guru all the 846 00:33:22,149 --> 00:33:19,600 time 847 00:33:24,870 --> 00:33:22,159 i can only imagine so how do you how do 848 00:33:27,110 --> 00:33:24,880 you balance that i guess would be one 849 00:33:29,750 --> 00:33:27,120 question 850 00:33:31,909 --> 00:33:29,760 uh well like anything uh i don't take 851 00:33:35,590 --> 00:33:31,919 myself too seriously because i know most 852 00:33:37,909 --> 00:33:35,600 of what i am is a construct 99 of who i 853 00:33:41,350 --> 00:33:37,919 am has been programmed from 854 00:33:44,389 --> 00:33:41,360 my hand gestures to my accent 855 00:33:46,310 --> 00:33:44,399 to you know why do i like the bears if i 856 00:33:48,310 --> 00:33:46,320 was the chicago bears 857 00:33:50,789 --> 00:33:48,320 wouldn't i be more authentic if i liked 858 00:33:52,389 --> 00:33:50,799 the team from like san diego or the 859 00:33:55,509 --> 00:33:52,399 packard you know what i mean 860 00:33:57,990 --> 00:33:55,519 so i try to just realize not to take 861 00:34:00,630 --> 00:33:58,000 myself too seriously or reality in 862 00:34:02,789 --> 00:34:00,640 itself so uh that's really the way and 863 00:34:04,789 --> 00:34:02,799 of course there is the inner 864 00:34:07,110 --> 00:34:04,799 there's that inner fire where i want 865 00:34:09,190 --> 00:34:07,120 everybody to find their own bliss from 866 00:34:11,030 --> 00:34:09,200 joseph campbell to find their own road 867 00:34:12,069 --> 00:34:11,040 and that passion to help those who 868 00:34:14,389 --> 00:34:12,079 suffer 869 00:34:16,710 --> 00:34:14,399 keeps me humble in a lot of ways because 870 00:34:17,909 --> 00:34:16,720 there's no time to sit on your laurels 871 00:34:20,230 --> 00:34:17,919 or 872 00:34:23,030 --> 00:34:20,240 get a big head about things i mean we 873 00:34:25,430 --> 00:34:23,040 got to be moving fast here 874 00:34:27,349 --> 00:34:25,440 great so miguel you've already mentioned 875 00:34:29,349 --> 00:34:27,359 in the book it's coming out an audible 876 00:34:31,909 --> 00:34:29,359 what else do we want to say about this 877 00:34:33,990 --> 00:34:31,919 book 10 snackable meditations i i do 878 00:34:35,109 --> 00:34:34,000 think people will really enjoy it you 879 00:34:37,750 --> 00:34:35,119 can get a very good sense you can go 880 00:34:39,109 --> 00:34:37,760 look inside and see if it's for you it's 881 00:34:40,550 --> 00:34:39,119 really something 882 00:34:41,829 --> 00:34:40,560 that you need to have on your kindle if 883 00:34:44,629 --> 00:34:41,839 you keep your kindle with your your 884 00:34:46,550 --> 00:34:44,639 phone or in your pocket because it can 885 00:34:48,629 --> 00:34:46,560 be that kind of touchstone 886 00:34:49,990 --> 00:34:48,639 bring me back to a good space kind of 887 00:34:51,750 --> 00:34:50,000 thing what else we want to tell people 888 00:34:53,669 --> 00:34:51,760 about it 889 00:34:56,389 --> 00:34:53,679 well yeah and if you get the paper back 890 00:34:58,870 --> 00:34:56,399 just put it in your back pocket 891 00:34:59,750 --> 00:34:58,880 to use it i think we've covered a lot of 892 00:35:12,950 --> 00:34:59,760 it 893 00:35:16,150 --> 00:35:12,960 thousands of years ago from tibetan 894 00:35:19,030 --> 00:35:16,160 monks to new age guys to sales people 895 00:35:20,870 --> 00:35:19,040 like we just talked about the brad leah 896 00:35:23,589 --> 00:35:20,880 so it's a good it's a nice good 897 00:35:24,630 --> 00:35:23,599 hodgepodge stew of the wisdom of the 898 00:35:26,470 --> 00:35:24,640 ages 899 00:35:28,710 --> 00:35:26,480 when it comes down to it nothing new 900 00:35:31,510 --> 00:35:28,720 under the sun that's what all these 901 00:35:34,069 --> 00:35:31,520 masters are saying just wake up 902 00:35:36,390 --> 00:35:34,079 don't sweat the small temporal stuff 903 00:35:37,829 --> 00:35:36,400 because it's all just temporal and at 904 00:35:39,829 --> 00:35:37,839 the end of the day you're going to be 905 00:35:41,990 --> 00:35:39,839 fine if you don't lose 906 00:35:44,790 --> 00:35:42,000 sight of who you really are which is 907 00:35:45,990 --> 00:35:44,800 just an eternal being you are an eternal 908 00:35:48,390 --> 00:35:46,000 being that 909 00:35:51,270 --> 00:35:48,400 somehow forgot and now thinks you are in 910 00:35:53,190 --> 00:35:51,280 this uh temporal world or even worse in 911 00:35:55,670 --> 00:35:53,200 the skeptical way somebody convinced you 912 00:35:57,910 --> 00:35:55,680 you're a biological robot and now it's 913 00:35:59,750 --> 00:35:57,920 just a universe of nihilism and 914 00:36:01,349 --> 00:35:59,760 mechanism that's uh 915 00:36:02,710 --> 00:36:01,359 that's pretty painful and you don't have 916 00:36:05,910 --> 00:36:02,720 to be in pain 917 00:36:08,230 --> 00:36:05,920 nice okay and i say that miguel because 918 00:36:09,750 --> 00:36:08,240 i want to pivot a little bit 919 00:36:11,990 --> 00:36:09,760 thanks again to miguel connor for 920 00:36:14,310 --> 00:36:12,000 joining me today on skeptico as i was 921 00:36:16,870 --> 00:36:14,320 just referencing you know there is a 922 00:36:19,109 --> 00:36:16,880 second half to this interview it was 923 00:36:21,829 --> 00:36:19,119 just so different than the first half 924 00:36:24,630 --> 00:36:21,839 that i felt like i need to release it 925 00:36:27,510 --> 00:36:24,640 as a second episode which i will do in a 926 00:36:28,310 --> 00:36:27,520 few weeks but for now i thought we would 927 00:36:31,030 --> 00:36:28,320 just 928 00:36:33,589 --> 00:36:31,040 focus in on this great great interview 929 00:36:34,310 --> 00:36:33,599 in this book that he did and i would tee 930 00:36:37,510 --> 00:36:34,320 up 931 00:36:40,470 --> 00:36:37,520 one question from this one which one of 932 00:36:43,030 --> 00:36:40,480 miguel's meditations did you like best 933 00:36:44,950 --> 00:36:43,040 did you most relate to 934 00:36:47,190 --> 00:36:44,960 let me know anyway you find me i have a 935 00:36:50,069 --> 00:36:47,200 bunch of new ways to kind of find me on 936 00:36:51,990 --> 00:36:50,079 the skeptico website so go there more 937 00:36:54,790 --> 00:36:52,000 ways to connect more ways to do things 938 00:36:57,190 --> 00:36:54,800 that become part of i guess a community 939 00:36:59,430 --> 00:36:57,200 of skeptical listeners so do check that 940 00:37:01,190 --> 00:36:59,440 out if that sounds interesting to you i 941 00:37:04,310 --> 00:37:01,200 got a lot more to come 942 00:37:06,020 --> 00:37:04,320 until next time take care and bye for 943 00:37:19,620 --> 00:37:06,030 now